

In a high-stakes world of professional leadership and personal growth, we’re taught to worship at the altar of data. We’re told to audit, collect, and plan accordingly.
We’re conditioned to think that every move must be backed by a spreadsheet, every pivot justified by a case study, and every decision filtered through a committee of reasonable voices. We quantify and fact-check our feelings as though they’re a liability.
For those striving to lead from their Big Voice, there is a deeper intelligence at play. It’s knowing without knowing, it doesn’t hesitate or falter, and once you begin to recognize it, it feels natural.
The little voice—the ego—distrusts intuition. It’s often louder, overpowering our intuition and making us second-guess the gut instinct inside. It confuses anxiety for gut feeling and often causes your stomach to churn.
Having intuition at all is such a sacred part of existence, and learning how to distinguish it from fear, how
to cultivate it in the noise, and how to act on it with unshakeable confidence.
While intuition feels magical, it isn’t quite just magic—it’s advanced pattern recognition.
Science suggests that our subconscious mind processes millions of bits of information per second, while
our conscious mind can only handle about forty. Intuition is the result of your brain “skipping the
steps”—it has seen this pattern before, calculated the trajectory, and delivered the answer to your
conscious mind before you’ve even finished asking the question.
It’s a voice you feel in your bones to be true and honest without a doubt.
In the context of Big Voices Rise, intuition is the direct line to your highest self. While your little voice is
busy analyzing the “what ifs” and the “shoulds,” your Big Voice is accessing your deep reservoir of
experience, values, and purpose.
The Great ImposterDistinguishing Intuition from Fear
In the Disney movie Inside Out, Anxiety claims, “My job is to protect her from the scary stuff.”
The most frequent hurdle in trusting your intuition is mistaking it for its loudest rival: anxiety. It might
feel like protection, but it’s often prevention. Because both can manifest as a physical sensation in the
body (that “pit in the stomach” feeling), it’s easy to confuse a warning from your Big Voice with urgent
panic from your Little Voice.
To tell them apart, look at the quality of the message you’re receiving.
Fear is almost always rooted in past trauma or borrowed grief from the future. It focuses on what might
happen, it worries, and it doesn’t leave you feeling great afterward. It leaves you second-guessing.
On the other hand, intuition is rooted in the here and now. It’s an immediate assessment of the present
moment, and feels more like knowing and less like worrying. Even when intuition is telling you “no” or
warning you of danger, it carries a certain weight of clarity rather than the frantic vibration of panic.
Intuition pulls you toward truth and stability within yourself.
Appreciate Silence to Cultivate the Whisper
It’s a misnomer that intuition will be loud and shout at you above the noise of everything else. Instead, it
often carries itself with a quiet confidence. It isn’t a performative feeling, but an intrinsic one.
Modern life is designed to drown out intuition with constant notifications, instant gratification, endless
content loops, and the external opinions of others. If you want to trust your intuition, you have to push
past the noise and get to the silence. There, you’ll begin to hear yourself.
Your physical surroundings have the ability to act as a mirror for your mental state.
If your home or office is cluttered and chaotic, your intuition will be muffled by the noise of unfinished
tasks bogging your mind. Cultivating a space—perhaps one featuring the grounding presence of wood
and earth tones, mid-century simplicity, and functional beauty—can act as a signal to your brain that it is
safe to shift from survival mode into listening mode.
Input Free Hours
To hear yourself, you have to stop listening to everyone else. This doesn’t mean never listen to anyone,
but it does mean never take advice from those who lead a life you wouldn’t want to live.
You also have to stop listening to everything else. This means creating a sacred window of time—ideally
in the morning—where there is zero digital input. No podcasts, no news, no emails. In this silence, your
intuition begins to surface. It is often during these quiet moments, or perhaps while doing a rhythmic,
analog task like listening to a record or reorganizing a shelf, that the Big Voice provides the breakthrough
you’ve been seeking.
Take A Dip, the Waters are Fine
Trusting your intuition is a muscle that takes strengthening before you can really flex it and notice a
difference. It doesn’t happen overnight, but over time with discipline and dedication. It’s intentional.
Start with low-stakes intuition. When you’re deciding what to eat, which route to take home, or which
book to pick up, don’t overthink it. Ask your gut, listen for the first answer, and follow it immediately.
Then, observe the results and how they leave you feeling. By proving to yourself that your intuition is
reliable during the small things, you build the evidence log you need to keep your anxious, worrisome
little voice quiet when big decisions arrive.
Saying “Yes” and the Courage of Conviction
The hardest part of intuition isn’t hearing it—it’s following it when it doesn’t make logical sense.
Intuition might tell you to walk away from a job that seems perfect on paper. It might tell you to hire the
candidate who lacks the specific degree but has the right spark. It might tell you to end a relationship
that looks successful from the outside.
This is where the rise happens.
When you act on your intuition, you make a declaration that you trust your internal authority more than
external validation. This is the ultimate expression of the Big Voice. It is a refusal to live a life that is a
performance for others, or that masks your true self—it’s you embracing a life of expressing yourself like
a phoenix rising from the ashes.
Live from the Inside Out
To trust your intuition is to stop searching for answers and start recognizing them with ease and clarity. It
is the shift from being a passenger in your own life to being the architect of it. You will feel intuition in
your chest, but it will feel easier to breathe.
The little voice will always want a map, a guarantee, and a consensus. But the Big Voice knows that the
most authentic paths are rarely mapped and never guaranteed, and comes solely from trusting yourself
without input from others. It’s built up one step at a time.
This week, I challenge you to find one moment where logic says “A” but your gut says “B.”
Take a breath, silence the noise, and for once, follow the whisper. Let it settle in your chest and allow
yourself to begin breathing easier. You’ll begin to feel more aligned with yourself as well as the world
around you, and you might be surprised about where your Big Voice is trying to lead you.